John Gray, author, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, states about Dianea's first adult book: "TEARS ARE TRUTH....intimately portrays from a personal and professional perspective the importance and beauty of tears and their healing power."

WHAT IS UNIQUE about DIANEA'S BOOKS?
... Not HOW-TO - but SHOW-YOU books!
...The author's exposure of her vulnerability!

She shows her tears and rage with real life situations. Not go-to-sleep books of theory - you'll experience the exhilarating journey, so you can learn how it will work in your own life.

You can learn how to benefit from the different levels of crying as Dianea Kohl reveals her most intimate journey of tears and rage, (rage can be seen as a surfboard into the ocean of tears) that continues to bring her to the deepest healing of her inner child, who is the soul of her spirit - the seat of Real Love - compassion for Self, and then others. During her seventeen years as a psychotherapist, she has been a client of behavioral, cognitive, systemic, and psychodynamic therapies that have been helpful, but not truly healing. It was in her marriage to Gregory that she found herself sobbing or having temper tantrums, like a child, that launched an undeniable healing process.

It is common to expect one's partner to fulfill our emotional needs, but it is not realistic, nor true that they can. Thus, the fights, and ultimately tears, that are not connected to the wounded child within us all. It is a very primal feeling when one becomes deeply vulnerable to onesSelf. It is the well from which Love can spring and grow in miraculous ways. Physical symptoms abate. Clients are set loose from medications. Relationships are deeper in Love. And most of all, our children's vulnerable feelings are respected, so that they can grow up into healthier Love.

$12.95

TEARS ARE TRUST...waiting to be felt is the sequel to TEARS ARE TRUTH...waiting to be spoken, the second book of a trilogy: TEARS ARE TRUE LOVE...waiting to be known, is anticipated. Dianea continues to write of her client's healing, this book focusing on marriages and partnerships in turmoil, healed by becoming awARE that their fighting, their anger, is a defense against being vulnerable to their hurt. It is well known that we are triggered to anger because it was not safe, as children, to express our feelings...as read in TEARS ARE TRUTH. These childhood hurts are triggered in our adult relationships and expressed readily with anger which distances us. Dianea also details her ongoing journey with intimate tears in healing her distant relationship with her mother; and missing her loving relationship with her father, whose photo is on the cover. Many of her father's sensitive, beautiful letters are included. Dianea concludes with how tears heal our insensitivities to animals, plants, even our language. Dianea asks you to join her on her remarkable journey, where vulnerability is the key to deeply loving relationships. It takes CouRAGE to LOVE. BEHIND the RAGE and ANGER are the TEARS of hurt that heal our hearts into REAL LOVE.

$13

Have you ever wondered why many say "oh god" at orgasm?

The reflection of LOVE is the purpose of EVOLution. Orgasm washed with tears exposes a pure climax of making love. Truer Love. Profound Love. Dianea's vulnerable love story of letting go of tears at orgasm is what this unique book of evolving toward higher Love is all about. Like the clouds letting go of rain, nourishing the earth to grow, tears nourish the growth of intimate, deep love. "Especially at orgasm I let go of parts of myself that I did not know were holding on."

Where SPIRIT meets SEX - where men and women can find the divine innate in all of us, whether we are alone, or with a lover, there the Beloved is present with wide-open eyes and heart.

Orgasm is a supremely beautiful and expansive feeling of letting go. Go for Love's possibilities as you read detailed accounts of the healing power of tears at orgasm.

$13

YOU and I have the universal gift to cry. All peoples have this gift, but many do not claim it. In fact, many shame it. Tears are the body's only natural response for healing that we suppress or repress. Because of the myth that we need to be "strong," and not show our tears, parents still disrespect their children's feelings. Why? Because parents' hurts have not been repected. We must do away with this conditioning, and the anger and rage that cover up our vulnerable hurt, our tears. It takes real couRAGE to become vulnerable - to expose our hurt tender hearts. Vulnerability is the avenue to compassion for ourselves, then others, which will eventually help us connect with one another, and all peoples, without judgement, but with LOVE.

Picture story book for ages 4 and up
$9.95

EVERYBODY LAUGHS….do you know Y?

Is the sequel to the children’s book EVERYBODY CRIES. This book is unique in that it is not illustrated by paintings or drawings like most children’s books. It is composed of black and white photos that accent the story’s FEELINGS that are discharged by LAUGHTER.

It is a real story that also makes the meaning of laughter even more REAL. Even though the book is for children 4 and up, adults will be amused and also learn something important about their own HEARTS, that bring more sensitivity to the LOVE we all want to FEEL…and that baby-children give so freely.

Ages 4 and up

$9.99

Order by email: dianeako@yahoo.com, at your local bookstore, or Amazon.com

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